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Tracy Kaler

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Lifestyle, My New York Life, Reflections

Every New Yorker Needs a Superman

A great super could be the key to living a happy life in New York City
The Upper West Side

To live happily in New York City, every New Yorker needs a great super.

Before my life in Manhattan, I lived in houses for almost a decade. Along with home ownership came the obvious repairs and improvements that were daunting and costly. Every night or weekend was dedicated to a new or ongoing project leaving me little time to myself.

After five years as a New Yorker, I struggle to remember those exhausting weekends playing house. No more weed-pulling, leaf-raking, touch-up painting or managing contractors on Saturdays and Sundays since I moved to NYC. My weekends in the City That Never Sleeps are filled with as much sleep as I need. Relaxation, park visits and other fun-filled activities like Broadway and sidewalk wine sipping have replaced the drudgery of ongoing home improvement projects.

Adjusting to life in NYC…was I visiting Mars or living in fiction?

My first apartment in New York was in a hi-rise tower with more than 200 units and a building staff larger than some companies I’d worked for. I learned the way that life happens here in NYC, and I adjusted quickly. From checking my 3×6-inch mail slot daily, to tipping out doormen during the holiday season, for the first few years, I felt like I was visiting Mars, or living in fiction.

I quickly learned that my husband and I no longer ruled the roost. All at once, a team of people existed and became part of our daily routines. I found myself in communication with a management company who left weekly notices under my door, a board of directors who decided on the repairs and handled the finances of the co-op, several doormen standing guard, maintenance men, porters, and of course the guy who keeps it all under control while barely breaking a sweat: THE SUPER.

When living in New York City, a great super will change your life.

Probably millions of New Yorkers can vouch for the importance of great super when living in New York City. The superintendent keeps the halls and common spaces clean, shovels the ice and snow, and maintains the systems and the landscaping. Supers will walk your dog, feed your cat, eliminate creepy crawly things, and (reluctantly) listen to your problems. An honest, organized, highly capable super makes life in NYC more bearable. The super is the king of kings, the head honcho, the big mahoff.

My super travels from apartment to apartment Monday through Friday, handling everything from minor tasks to emergencies. In three years of living here, I’ve yet to see him frazzled, and that includes the threat of Hurricane Irene knocking on our door last summer.

A plumbing debacle in my New York apartment

Late last night after my husband left town, the bathroom sink stopped draining and started leaking underneath. At midnight, I yanked everything out from under the vanity, dried up the mess, and brushed my teeth in the kitchen. If this plumbing debacle had occurred just a day earlier, my can-fix-anything husband would’ve been able to step in with his tool pouch and take care of business. But since he was away, I needed to figure this out, and fast. As it turns out, married to a handyman for a decade plus had eliminated even the slightest home improvement challenges. I’d become spoiled.

“It’s the “P-trap. You’ll need to call Julio in the morning,” he says. No sound of concern came from the other end of the phone line and he insisted it was an easy fix. Julio is our super, and he’s saved the day on numerous occasions. Surely, he could end the leak and get the water running downhill again.

But I had just one question,  “What in the H is a P-trap?”  Since it was a little too late at midnight for plumbing 101, I figured I’d ask another time.

God bless Julio, my incredible super

Julio is a super extraordinaire. He’s much more than a building manager. I like to call him “Superman.” Calm, cool, and collected, he enters the apartment each time with his handy toolbox and mechanical contraptions. Within thirty minutes, all is back to normal for as normal as a 100-year-old apartment can be. Then he packs up and is off to another residence to save someone else’s day and often prevent catastrophe. On top of his knowledge and efficiency, I am impressed that he never gets dirty.

Julio came by this morning with his bag of tricks and gadgets, and made the repair in twenty minutes. It was probably elementary for a jack-of-all-trades or a handyman with a wrench, but not for someone like me whose biggest tool is a flatiron. Obviously, I slept through mechanical systems class in interior design school. I don’t know a P-trap from a mousetrap and I have zero contractor skills, but what I lack in plumbing and electrical abilities, I make up for in decorating.

When my husband returns from his trip, I need a lesson in plumbing basics. No worries, I’m not going to attempt to play house again like the old days before life in Manhattan. I’ll leave the playing and the fixing to Julio. My Superman knows best.

My leaky bathroom vanity.

Also, if I had a million dollars…

And people come to New York with a suitcase and a dream

Categories: Lifestyle, My New York Life, Reflections

About Tracy Kaler

Tracy Kaler is a freelance journalist who writes about travel, food, wine, interior design and architecture. Her words and photos have been published in The Telegraph, Mansion Global, The Atlanta-Journal Constitution, AAA Traveler Worldwise, CNBC Travel and others. She is the author of NEW YORK: 48 HOURS published by National Geographic and an active member of SATW and NATJA. She lives in New York City.

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