Are you caught up in the idea of living in NYC? Here are some things to know before moving to New York City
While thousands of NYC visitors fall in love with the city each year (I was one), only a handful can downright flourish as full-time residents. If you’ve been bitten by the New York love bug, know you’re not alone, but getting caught up in the romance of NYC will be miles away from dwelling in the city permanently. If you can’t hack what I discuss below, you’re better off clearing your calendar for a weekend or two each year, rather than uprooting your existence for what you fantasize as the New York life. So you’re ready and there are no surprises, here are some things to know before moving to New York City.
You’ll frequently be traveling underground.
Before I lived here, I rarely, if ever rode the subway. When I moved to the city, although reluctant at first, I began taking it daily. Now that I’ve been working from home for several years, I don’t ride as regularly but I still rely on the New York subway to get me around town because it’s the most cost-effective and efficient method when commuting distances.
You’ll wait a lot.
Because of the volume of people, everything you do in NYC requires more time –– and waiting. If you don’t have patience, you’ll have to develop that virtue upon signing a lease, because you’ll be standing in queues on an almost daily basis. From Whole Foods to your local post office to the movie theater and especially tourist draws like Levain Bakery, waiting is almost inevitable.
You’ll pay more for almost everything.
It’s no secret that the city is an expensive place, but until you’ve lived in New York for a year or two, you can’t comprehend how short a distance your money goes. Groceries, personal items, veterinary care, clothing, housing, etc. will cost more, quickly depleting your bank account because you probably haven’t budgeted enough. Add 30 percent to what you assume something will cost, and then you might be on target. One of the important things to know before moving to New York, you must accept that everything will cost more, and don’t beat yourself up about spending so much to live here.

Moving to New York City? You’ll likely live with less.
Depending on where you’re moving from, you’ll probably have to downsize to live here. Unless, of course, you move from another expensive city such as San Francisco or London. Editing your lifestyle isn’t always bad, however. In fact, ridding yourself of those belongings you don’t need can be somewhat liberating. But living with less probably won’t be temporary as long as you stay in the city. You’ll have to adjust to living smaller and with fewer personal items, unless you become financially stable enough to secure a sprawling apartment or own a vacation home outside the city.
You’ll endure harsh winters and humid summers.
January and February are brutal months in New York City. Humidity tends to soar in July and August, making for sticky and smelly streets. I understand you might be from Minneapolis. Where it snows seven or eight months each year, or you went to college for four years in South Florida where the average daily temperature is 84 degrees. But, living in NYC is different, and here’s why….
In New York, you’ll be exposed to the elements. Walking sometimes miles. Going underground to catch the subway (point #1) when it’s 90-plus outside and 100-plus on the platform. Waiting for a bus in the midst of a polar vortex. Climbing stairs. Carrying packages. Schlepping through ice and snow. Now you can thoroughly understand where that New Yorker toughness everyone talks about comes from.
You’ll encounter dirt and grime (and rats) on a daily basis.
The city is much cleaner than it was 30 or 40 years ago. However, you’ll still see trash on the streets and in the subways. Even the “new” New York is far from pristine. To feel at home in NYC, you have to look past the dirt, garbage, urine, and vermin, and appreciate the atypical allure of this town. I believe that beauty can be found in the ugly with a bit of imagination, but I wish the streets of New York were cleaner.
You’ll walk a lot.
If you want to live in NYC, then you’ll need to love walking. Grasping the number of miles New Yorkers travel is futile unless you live here. A simple trip to the grocery store and back can be a mile, and I consider that a short walk. Some locals walk 30 or 40 blocks every day to work and think nothing of it. New York is a walking city and being on foot is one of the pros of living here. Not only is your carbon footprint smaller, but you’re healthier, too. If you like spending time in a vehicle and don’t enjoy walking, then you’ll more than likely be downright miserable living in New York City.
You’ll rub elbows with people from different classes, backgrounds, and beliefs.
NYC is culturally, religiously, and economically diverse. The city has long been an entry point for immigrants. People from just about every nation have settled in New York’s five boroughs. If you only want to mingle with people like yourself and not be exposed to different beliefs, cultures, and lifestyle choices, NYC might not be for you. If you don’t want to live in the same zip code as people on public assistance, earning a modest income, and those making millions, then this city is probably not for you either. As my mother once said, “That’s New York. It’s a little bit of everything.” And in my opinion, the melting pot is one aspect that makes living in NYC great.
You might have aspirations, but you might not make it big.
Chances are, you have a desire to move to NYC and pursue your dreams. Maybe you want to be an actor or a model, open a small business, or write your first novel. But making it in New York may not mean a six-figure book deal or a leading role in a major motion picture. Making it could mean earning a living doing what you love, and discovering one of the world’s most spectacular cities, day by day, inch by inch.
It could also mean forging lifelong friendships with like-minded individuals, and taking full advantage of the various opportunities that come your way. Success in NYC may mean living a wonderfully rich and fulfilling life. One you might not have been fortunate enough to experience had you not lived in New York City.

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